So, let's dive a little deeper. A key element in repairing the world, a task too daunting for one to embrace alone, is to begin the journey by repairing the soul. Tikkun ha nefesh. What use, after all, is taking to the barricades with a heart full of anger and a hatred of the other?

Yes, fear and the belief that there is evil afoot in this world are powerful motivators but my worry is that the toxicity that becomes our righteous fuel is a sad cure for what ails us. Instead, I offer that we begin with humility. Not a cowering, humble response to our challenges, but instead the humility to know when it is time to follow and when to lead. To move from an ego-system to an ecosystem approach.

Part of what I engage in with Spiritual Direction clients is a journey through what is called Mussar. Together we take note of where soul traits like silence, patience, enthusiasm, equanimity, and more sit within us. What can we do to cultivate more, or perhaps less, of these traits? Alan Morinis has written an excellent book called Everyday Holiness. It is a wonderful introduction to Mussar.

Where do I fit, and how can I pivot from correcting to connecting? If these questions pique your interest, you can reach out to me here.